Rude person and just demands things, wouldn't recommend purchasing from this buyer, just a waste of time
Your item was damaged and not in a condition to sell, and you lied about the connectors on the phone, your difficult to contact about the apple id restoration. I can post our chats if needed as proof of our convo.
IF the product was in the condition that you said it was in, there would be no complaints and no demands for refund, however any buyer would be quite annoyed about a similar transaction and would also demand a refund. Be honest about what you sell.